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		<title>grrrrrr&#8230;.</title>
		<link>http://spoken-for.org/archives/2010/08/11/3044/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Aug 2010 04:33:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Val</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Trying to implement WordPress into Flash, at least for a novice like me&#8230; le suck&#8230; Edit: I give up. boo]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Trying to implement WordPress into Flash, at least for a novice like me&#8230; <em>le suck</em>&#8230;</p>
<p>Edit: I give up.  boo</p>
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		<title>bedtime woes</title>
		<link>http://spoken-for.org/archives/2010/01/27/2865/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Jan 2010 06:45:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Val</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Bleh, it&#8217;s frustrating and it never fails. Tonight, for example. I warned the E-boy: &#8220;Bedtime in one hour.&#8221; &#8220;Bedtime in half an hour.&#8221; &#8220;Bedtime in fifteen minutes.&#8221; &#8220;Ok, brush your teeth, go to the bathroom, wash your hands, get your jammies on, and go to bed.&#8221; A lot of instructions, I know, but he&#8217;s really [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Bleh, it&#8217;s frustrating and it never fails.  Tonight, for example.  I warned the E-boy:</p>
<p>&#8220;Bedtime in one hour.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Bedtime in half an hour.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Bedtime in fifteen minutes.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Ok, brush your teeth, go to the bathroom, wash your hands, get your jammies on, and go to bed.&#8221;</p>
<p>A lot of instructions, I know, but he&#8217;s really got that bedtime routine down pat.  The problem starts about 15 minutes after he&#8217;s been in bed.</p>
<p>&#8220;I&#8217;m hungry.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Hello?  Mommy?  I&#8217;m hungry!!&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;You&#8217;ve been sent to bed.  Good-night.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;But I&#8217;m hungry!  I didn&#8217;t have dinner.&#8221;</p>
<p>He totally had dinner, whether he wants to admit it or not.  Sometimes he gets a snack (contrary to what my size may show you, we don&#8217;t usually have dessert here).  But he always has plenty of time before bed to tell me he&#8217;s hungry.  There are times I&#8217;ve even asked him if he was hungry, gotten a &#8220;no&#8221; answer, sent him to bed, then *suddenly* he&#8217;s &#8220;hungry.&#8221;  Most of the time I think it&#8217;s just a ploy to stay up later but I feel guilty thinking that I don&#8217;t want to deny a growing boy some food.</p>
<p>But this behavior has got to stop.  Tonight I told him, &#8220;ok, you can eat your dinner left-overs but then to bed and this is NOT going to happen anymore.  You have plenty of time to decide if you&#8217;re hungry or not and you will NOT be getting out of bed like this anymore.&#8221;  We&#8217;ll see how it goes.</p>
<p>The thing that really grinds my gears, though, besides when he&#8217;s been offered food just 10 minutes prior, is that he throws an absolute fit about finishing dinner left-overs.  I have been in his face about not wasting food but he just doesn&#8217;t seem to get it.  Of course, I win there, because I say &#8220;it&#8217;s that or nothing, we&#8217;re not wasting it,&#8221; but it still frustrates.</p>
<p>This has been a rant, good-night.  :)</p>
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		<title>of restaurants, movies, and stupid dogs</title>
		<link>http://spoken-for.org/archives/2008/09/19/2299/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Sep 2008 04:14:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Val</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Days Go By]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[So it&#8217;s been an interesting week to say the least. Went out with a friend for dinner this evening, had a good time. Nice place. Came home to an empty house which was nice, but didn&#8217;t last long enough. But that&#8217;s where the photo comes from, the restaurant&#8217;s bathroom. Silver and red. Actually pretty cool. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a class="tt-flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/anela/2871125325"><img class="tt-flickr" src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3257/2871125325_b827253e53_m.jpg" width="161" height="240" alt="Red" align="left" /></a> So it&#8217;s been an interesting week to say the least.  Went out with a friend for dinner this evening, had a good time.  Nice place.  Came home to an empty house which was nice, but didn&#8217;t last long enough.  But that&#8217;s where the photo comes from, the restaurant&#8217;s bathroom.  Silver and red.  Actually pretty cool.</p>
<p>Spent the earlier day trying to catch up on some things and getting a little done here and a little done there.  How very typical.  Now I am up late, watching Duplex.  Steve bailed when he saw what movie it was but I LOVE this movie.  So I&#8217;m stickin&#8217; it out!<br />
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Rented Love in a Time of Cholera yesterday.  It kinda sucked.  Also rented Beyond the Gates which I thought was something else by the same name but it turned out, of course, it&#8217;s not about Ecuador but about Rwanda.  Stuck it out with my father-in-law until I had to leave for a meeting but returned it without seeing the end or asking anyone what happened.  Guess I&#8217;m just not in to that right now.</p>
<p>Elijah&#8217;s going nuts waiting for Kung Fu Panda to come out.  He picked up the Xbox game at the movie store and was all, &#8220;MOMMY LYKE OMG MOMMY PAY ATTENTION IT&#8217;S KUNGGGGFU PANDA!!!11!!!!!1&#8243;  Too bad for him we don&#8217;t have an Xbox&#8230;</p>
<p><a href="http://spoken-for.org/wp-content/uploads/2008/09/skirtini.png"><img src="http://spoken-for.org/wp-content/uploads/2008/09/skirtini.png" alt="" title="skirtini" width="150" class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-2303" /></a> In other news&#8230;  remember my swim suit?  Steve threw mine in the dryer back in June or July so I had to get a new one.  It took me forever but I finally found the one I wanted online.  Had to order it online, too, because my closest Lane Bryant doesn&#8217;t carry swimsuits.  The thing was $90 but on sale for, I think $60.  It turned out to be two piece which I didn&#8217;t expect but it worked out ok.  What I really liked was that the top was a square neckline, not plunging which is so not me.  But they assume that because you&#8217;re bigger you must have big boobs (I no, ryte?) so our family friend was altering the thing for me.  She took it and did a temporary fix and I found it was ok but it took me a long time to get with her to give it back for final altering.  So when I was over there Thursday of last week, I left it with her.</p>
<p>Well, apparently, it sat there by her machine for nearly a week and her FOUR dobermans left it alone until Wednesday night.  When she got home that evening, they&#8217;d apparently eaten it.  So she says, of course, she&#8217;ll buy me a new top.  The bottoms (skirtini) are ok, they were here with me.  But I go to look at the website and guess what, I find the product by the old URL (thank you Firefox 3 for guessing where I&#8217;m going) but apparently it&#8217;s no longer available.  So now I&#8217;m upset.  Sigh.  I don&#8217;t like anything else they have except for one that might be ok.  On an off-chance, I emailed LB and they suggested I call or visit a local store and have them check inventory that they might have.  I can guess that&#8217;s going to go nowhere.  So, sigh.  That was like the first one I ever <i>really</i> liked, in all my life.  Most expensive suit I&#8217;ve probably ever had, too.  I was ok when I figured I could order it again but it being unattainable just kinda depresses me.</p>
<p>I know, I know, how stupid to be depressed over a swim suit.  I guess it&#8217;s just frustrating when you have something you really like and you can no longer have/use it because something out of your control took it away.  Oh well, I&#8217;ll find a replacement and hopefully soon forget all about this one.  Also, I&#8217;m not mad at our friend at all but I just wish the stupid dogs hadn&#8217;t have eaten it.  They act weird when there&#8217;s something around the house that smells like someone else and apparently eat those things all the time despite their obedience training.  Our friend thinks the four of them had a party with my suit.  Blah.  (By the way, it&#8217;s not strange for me to need a suit this time of year, some of you might remember I am trying to swim at the community center&#8217;s indoor pool with E twice a week.  We haven&#8217;t been keeping up with it lately with things being so crazy but I was going to start next week again after, of course, getting my suit back.)</p>
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		<title>it&#8217;s that time again&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://spoken-for.org/archives/2008/08/29/2275/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Aug 2008 06:16:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Val</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Please, everyone join me for a scream of frustration. Since it&#8217;s 1:12am, I can&#8217;t scream for real, so this will have to do. ARGGGGG!!! Let&#8217;s just say that certain people who I have paid to so something that I was told would be done within 24 hours of payment still haven&#8217;t done it after a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Please, everyone join me for a scream of frustration.  Since it&#8217;s 1:12am, I can&#8217;t scream for real, so this will have to do.</p>
<p>ARGGGGG!!!</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s just say that certain people who I have paid to so something that I was told would be done within 24 hours of payment still haven&#8217;t done it after a week.  A.  WEEK.  !!!  And let&#8217;s just say that because of this, a certain website of mine is really wonky and now it&#8217;s refusing to work right and it&#8217;s costing me money in areas I can&#8217;t afford.  So, yay, I get to ship out an order that the cart didn&#8217;t charge for shipping, so I make pretty much no money on this one.  It&#8217;s my site&#8217;s fault, so I&#8217;m not going to make the customer make up the difference.  But if this continues, I&#8217;m gonna get screwed big time&#8230;</p>
<p>AAAAAUUUUUUGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHH.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m going to spontaneously combust.  Seriously.</p>
<p>Good-bye, cruel world.</p>
<p>x-|</p>
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		<title>I think I&#8217;m back?</title>
		<link>http://spoken-for.org/archives/2008/05/20/2147/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 20 May 2008 22:46:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Val</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hello, is this thing on? HEY YOU! Yeah, YOU. If you can see this, please please try to leave me a comment? Let me know: where you&#8217;re located (approximately) and if the site is giving you any trouble &#8212; is it slow? Does it load fine? And what browser are you using? Aaaaaaaauuuuuuggggggghhhh!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello, is this thing on?</p>
<p>HEY YOU!  Yeah, YOU.  If you can see this, please please try to leave me a comment?  Let me know: where you&#8217;re located (approximately) and if the site is giving you any trouble &#8212; is it slow?  Does it load fine?  And what browser are you using?</p>
<p>Aaaaaaaauuuuuuggggggghhhh!</p>
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		<title>We&#8217;re gettin&#8217; no place fast.</title>
		<link>http://spoken-for.org/archives/2005/10/27/1252/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Oct 2005 17:37:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Val</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Days Go By]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Whenever I am on the internet, once in a day, I&#8217;ll stop by my own blog here, and see if there are any entries in the sidebar that are being listed as posted a year or two ago. I always read these entries. Look at one year ago today, will ya? Look down at the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Whenever I am on the internet, once in a day, I&#8217;ll stop by my own blog here, and see if there are any entries in the sidebar that are being listed as posted a year or two ago.  I always read these entries.</p>
<p>Look at <a href="http://spoken-for.org/archives/2004/10/27/576/">one year ago today</a>, will ya?  Look down at the 8th paragraph, it&#8217;s just a one liner.</p>
<blockquote><p>My dryer still hasn&#8217;t been fixed after months. What does this say?</p></blockquote>
<p>So it <em>has</em> been over a year that my dryer&#8217;s been on the fritz.  It works all fine and dandy, but the timer&#8217;s busted so it will run and run and the dial never moves and the thing never shuts itself off.  I have a tendency to forget about it and realize that it&#8217;s been running for four or five hours or more.  Amazingly enough, none of the clothing inside has ever spontaneously combusted&#8230; yet.</p>
<p>So I was right, it&#8217;s been over a year that the thing has been busted and over a year that we&#8217;ve had the part to fix it but it hasn&#8217;t been done.</p>
<p>Almost makes me want to move into an apartment or rental house somewhere so I can yell at some landlord to fix stuff instead of Steve, the husband who has absolutely no time for anything at all.</p>
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