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		<title>Protected: Not so much</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Mar 2007 04:39:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Val</dc:creator>
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		<title>Protected: Just for my records&#8230;</title>
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		<dc:creator>Val</dc:creator>
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		<title>Stalker Girl&#8217;s Mommy?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Feb 2006 04:10:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Val</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Maybe, maybe not. I finally sent an email on December 30th to the address SG claimed was her mother&#8217;s. I&#8217;d completely forgotten about it until she responded on January 20th. Now, I know what you&#8217;re thinking. Several things, probably. Why bother? How do you know it really is her mom? Etc. The answer to that [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Maybe, maybe not.</p>
<p>I finally sent an email on December 30th to the address SG claimed was her mother&#8217;s.  I&#8217;d completely forgotten about it until she responded on January 20th.</p>
<p>Now, I know what you&#8217;re thinking.  Several things, probably.  Why bother?  How do you know it really is her mom?  Etc.  The answer to that is, why not?  And, no, I am not positive it&#8217;s her mom, but again, why not?  And, finally, I&#8217;m writing to her from my old email address, SG already knows it, so even if this is another lie, she doesn&#8217;t have my new address.</p>
<p>So here&#8217;s the correspondence we&#8217;ve had so far&#8230;<br />
<span id="more-1419"></span><br />
From me to her, December 30.</p>
<blockquote><p>Look, I don&#8217;t know if this is a real email address or not.  I don&#8217;t know if I&#8217;m getting the right person or just wasting my time.  But I will assume that I am.</p>
<p>Your daughter, Chien Yee, really needs to leave me alone.  She has been bothering me online for nearly a year now and I am very tired of it.  She started out by creating many, many different online personalities to ask me for free things.  In the beginning, as herself, she gave me a hard luck story about her father not letting her use a credit card.  I felt sorry for her and bought her a domain name and hosted her for free.  She was, however, not content with this and began to create the different personalities.  I realized what was going on with the second personality, there were just too many coincidences.  I confronted her right out with this but she denied it and made up many lies.  It was after that that I decided I no longer wanted to fratenize with someone who lied and was trying to use me.  I began blocking her from my websites and instant messengers and tried ignoring her. </p>
<p>She, however, could not deal with this and really began to harrass me.  Now, the harrassment has gone on to higher levels, mostly through email, though she even called me on the telephone in September.  I hung up on her when I realized it was her.  I have told her numerous times to get lost but she just continues to contact me and &#8220;follow me around.&#8221; </p>
<p>She even went so far as to steal one of my website designs and post it for free download.  At the time I found out about it, there were 345 downloads of the design.  I did not authorize that, it was stolen, and at what I would charge for that design, a minimal $45, your daughter now owes me $15,525 USD. </p>
<p>She has admitted submitting my email address to online forms therefore giving me spam at an address that did not used to get any.  She even went as far as to impersonate me on a website &#8211; trying to become me.</p>
<p>She lies constantly.  I have emails where she&#8217;s said that her IP address always changes and other emails that say her IP address is the same as the whole country of Brunei.  She&#8217;s lied and tried to turn the tables on me, saying I am the one who is bothering her, and I am the one posting nasty messages on her website (using words I do not even use ever), saying that I was the one submitting her email address to things, and saying that I&#8217;m spamming you when in reality we both know that this is only the second email I&#8217;ve ever sent to you.  The first was just to make sure the address wasn&#8217;t going to bounce before I took the time to sit down and write out an email about all of this.  I don&#8217;t believe a word she says anymore.  And as far as to say that I am the one bothering her, that is just not the case.  I&#8217;ve done everything I can to get rid of her.  I just want her to go away, to stop emailing me and visiting my websites, to stop contacting my family members and friends, and to stop giving me ultimatums from the back of her immature mind.  I just want her to go away.  I only answer emails to her when it is absolutely necessary and try to ignore her.  She even has me in the process of changing my personal email address and the address I use for instant messengers, etc.  I&#8217;ve had to password protect a website because of her and some of my clients have had to make changes to their websites (registered users only) as well. </p>
<p>Do you see what the big point is?  I want you to make her leave me alone.  No if&#8217;s, and&#8217;s, or but&#8217;s about it.  You really should also get her some psychological help as well.  I also want to make clear that she has asked for permission to &#8220;continue&#8221; my scripts.  The answer is a big NO, absolutely not, under any circumstances.  Besides, I never said I was done with them anyway. </p>
<p>Also note that I have a close cousin who is a policewoman.  She has her friends in the Internet Crime division looking into this for me.  While I&#8217;m not a priority, of course, they ARE looking into it and they WILL get full information and I WILL prosecute if necessary.  Just please, I beg of you, do something about this.  Be the parent and step in.  Take away her computer, whatever, just make her leave me the heck alone. </p></blockquote>
<p>From her to me, January 20.</p>
<blockquote><p>Sorry for not responding to this email earlier as I have been swamped with a lot of work.</p>
<p>I have a question to ask you. How am I sure that you&#8217;re not lying to me? Who are you anyways? My daughter has NO website, neither has she ever asked any of us for one. </p>
<p>If she owes you any money, don&#8217;t expect me to help her to pay it. Ask her to do something that is worth that much. I can&#8217;t get the bottom message properly. Please rephrase yourself.</p>
<p>Sir/Madam, please, if you can, show me proof of this. I don&#8217;t think she would do something like that let alone ask for something that she haven&#8217;t asked me. Don&#8217;t ruin her now. She&#8217;s just 14! Can you please reconsider this matter? Don&#8217;t destroy her even before her career begins. </p>
<p>I&#8217;ve tried asking her but in front of my husband, I dare not. You see, he has high hopes of her and so do I. Please think what a mother would feel if her child did something like this.</p>
<p>I am an aged woman. I&#8217;m already in my 50&#8242;s. I am also an ill woman. I had a minor heart attack last year and I need the money for my medical expenses.</p>
<p>What are your websites? Show me proof of what you said.</p>
<p>Thank You</p></blockquote>
<p>Do you see the reasoning problems already?</p>
<p>From me to her January 31st.  This one&#8217;s a bit longer because I quoted her piece by piece (in italics).</p>
<blockquote><p><i>I have a question to ask you. How am I sure that you&#8217;re not lying to me? Who are you anyways? My daughter has NO website, neither has she ever asked any of us for one.</i></p>
<p>Well, in truth, I cannot be sure that anything you say is the truth either.  You may not even be the person I hope you are.  This may be another fake email and personality for one who calls herself Chien Yee.</p>
<p>Your daughter&#8217;s website is <a href="http://lemonale.com">lemonale.com</a>.  I have screenshots where she has made reference to me from there.<br />
She also has geocities.com/chienyee2002, icy.hollowsite.com,  shadow.mezza-9.net, freewebs.com/chienyee, chienyee.soul-petal.net, chienyee.mindintentionshosting.com, chienyee.1800-webhosting.com &#8211; though some of those do not work anymore and she has denied some though they are obviously hers.  Also, chienyee.net which no longer works.  That was the site I bought her when I was being nice before I was treated like this.</p>
<p><i>If she owes you any money, don&#8217;t expect me to help her to pay it. Ask her to do something that is worth that much. I can&#8217;t get the bottom message properly. Please rephrase yourself.</i></p>
<p>Well, technically, as her mother you are indeed liable for any damages your child makes.  Secondly, I will not ask her to DO something for me as nothing is worth that much for me and even if it were, she would not be capable.  She is responsible for money only.<br />
As for the message you did not get properly, I do not know what you are talking about, please quote it back to me.</p>
<p><i>Sir/Madam, please, if you can, show me proof of this. I don&#8217;t think she would do something like that let alone ask for something that she haven&#8217;t asked me. Don&#8217;t ruin her now. She&#8217;s just 14! Can you please reconsider this matter? Don&#8217;t destroy her even before her career begins. </i></p>
<p>This has nothing to do with any career of hers.  I do not desire for her to be &#8220;ruined&#8221; or anyone else for that matter.  I just want to be left to my own.  I also have no desire to send you all the proof I have.  It would take hours to explain it all properly and lots of time and space to attach it to an email. </p>
<p><i>I&#8217;ve tried asking her but in front of my husband, I dare not. You see, he has high hopes of her and so do I. Please think what a mother would feel if her child did something like this.</i></p>
<p>Really, this has nothing to do with anything.  High hopes has nothing to do with it.  I, too, have high hopes for my child.  And that certainly does not stop me from disciplining him when he needs it.</p>
<p><i>I am an aged woman. I&#8217;m already in my 50&#8242;s. I am also an ill woman. I had a minor heart attack last year and I need the money for my medical expenses.</i></p>
<p>Look, I&#8217;m sorry, but this sounds like a cop-out and makes me believe again, that you are not who I hope you are.  My parents and in-laws are also in their 50&#8242;s, that is nothing.</p>
<p><i>What are your websites? Show me proof of what you said.</i> </p>
<p>Okay, I was not going to but I have decided to list the address here.  These posts contain almost everything though there is yet to be a recent update and I have not attached hardly any of the screenshots.  Though they do contain my replies to her.  You will see how much I have told her to go away after trying to get away quietly. </p>
<p>This list starts with the least recent post and ends with the most recent:</p>
<p>http://spoken-for.org/archives/2005/05/12/964/</p>
<p>http://spoken-for.org/archives/2005/05/30/992/</p>
<p>http://spoken-for.org/archives/2005/06/02/1004/</p>
<p>http://spoken-for.org/archives/2005/06/07/1011/</p>
<p>http://spoken-for.org/archives/2005/06/10/1016/</p>
<p>http://spoken-for.org/archives/2005/06/22/1022/</p>
<p>http://spoken-for.org/archives/2005/06/25/1050/</p>
<p>http://spoken-for.org/archives/2005/07/29/1097/</p>
<p>http://spoken-for.org/archives/2005/08/23/1141/</p>
<p>http://spoken-for.org/archives/2005/08/25/1142/</p>
<p>http://spoken-for.org/archives/2005/09/12/1179/ &#8211; only this post is not entirely about her, it contains only a few lines</p>
<p>http://spoken-for.org/archives/2005/11/17/1286/</p>
<p>http://spoken-for.org/archives/2005/11/18/1289/</p>
<p>http://spoken-for.org/archives/2005/11/19/1291/</p>
<p>http://spoken-for.org/archives/2005/11/21/1295/</p>
<p>http://spoken-for.org/archives/2005/12/28/1351/</p>
<p>http://spoken-for.org/archives/2005/12/31/1354/</p>
<p>http://spoken-for.org/archives/2006/01/14/1379/</p>
<p>You will notice the postings start at last May.  She has been bothering me since March of last year.  Only there were occurrances where she contacted me beforehand and I did not realize it was her.  So you could say she&#8217;s been bothering me for much longer than a year!  This is unacceptable!!! </p>
<p>Just please be a good parent and do what you should: monitor her online activities.  Teach her what is right.</p></blockquote>
<p>From her to me, February 6th.</p>
<blockquote><p>I have already discussed this matter with her. I&#8217;ve changed the dialup password to one which she doesn&#8217;t know. Is there any software that blocks a computer&#8217;s access to a website? I want to find out to implement this on her to stop visiting your sites. I can see that both of us are parents. Madam, I hope we can settle this &#8211; without the law involved. I know what she did was wrong, she confessed to me as well. I&#8217;ve had a mother-daughter talk with her and she agreed to your terms stated. I also told her father who was really diasppointed. By the way, how did you get my email? This email is strictly private and also not for anyone else but close friends and relatives. Although you say that your parents are in their 50&#8242;s, not all have extremely good health. My husband and I installed a deskcam that records her online activities. So far, she hasn&#8217;t been there as she had been grounded for two weeks. I was too busy to reply recently so I do apologise for this late email. </p>
<p>Why do you post in your website about her? I am not an expert in IT or anything of the sort but I do hope you can remove those. Why did you even post that without telling me, since you&#8217;ve had my email? If you talked to me earlier, this won&#8217;t be serious at all.</p></blockquote>
<p>How do you like that paragraph?  Got me wondering again&#8230;  From me to her January 7, again with the quotes.</p>
<blockquote><p><i>I have already discussed this matter with her. I&#8217;ve changed the dialup password to one which she doesn&#8217;t know. Is there any software that blocks a computer&#8217;s access to a website? I want to find out to implement this on her to stop visiting your sites.</i> </p>
<p>I don&#8217;t know of one, but that doesn&#8217;t mean that there isn&#8217;t one out there, of course.  And besides, dialup?  She told me she had broadband access in an internet cafe owned by her dad.  Possibly you can add sites to restricted sites in internet options of browsers. </p>
<p><i>I can see that both of us are parents. Madam, I hope we can settle this &#8211; without the law involved. I know what she did was wrong, she confessed to me as well. I&#8217;ve had a mother-daughter talk with her and she agreed to your terms stated. I also told her father who was really diasppointed.</i> </p>
<p>Truth be told, I just want to be left alone.  There are no real &#8220;terms&#8221; necessarily, I just want to be left completely alone.  I&#8217;m sorry that you and your husband are disappointed, but what else can I do?  The law is already involved, there is no turning back on that one. </p>
<p><i>By the way, how did you get my email? This email is strictly private and also not for anyone else but close friends and relatives.</i></p>
<p>It was given to me by your daughter.</p>
<p><i>Although you say that your parents are in their 50&#8242;s, not all have extremely good health. My husband and I installed a deskcam that records her online activities. So far, she hasn&#8217;t been there as she had been grounded for two weeks. I was too busy to reply recently so I do apologise for this late email. </p>
<p>Why do you post in your website about her? I am not an expert in IT or anything of the sort but I do hope you can remove those. Why did you even post that without telling me, since you&#8217;ve had my email? If you talked to me earlier, this won&#8217;t be serious at all.</i></p>
<p>I post in my website about her for several reasons: because it&#8217;s my website, it&#8217;s where I discuss my life; to warn others; as an attempt to get her to leave me alone.  I can remove them, but as I already told her, I will not.  It is my website, my history, my life, I do not delete posts, especially posts in which others have participated/commented.  I posted &#8220;without telling you&#8221; because I was posting long before I was ever given your email address.  There was no talking to you earlier as I had no address for many months.</p></blockquote>
<p>Am I the only one who feels like she&#8217;s trying to lay a guilt trip at my feet for everything that&#8217;s happened?</p>
<p>But the really good news through all of this?  Remember my last SG post?  Since then SG has not contacted me at al.  Unless, of course, it really is her emailing me as her mommy and not her mommy, I&#8217;m open to that.  And guess what else?  She blocked my IP from her site.  :-D</p>
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		<dc:creator>Val</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have no idea what the hell you are talking about. This comment was in my moderation queue: What is the problem with you?!!! Why do you insist on making gibby.wsâ€™s emails based on its changes go to me? Stop it! I am frustrated. 3 emails about it! You asked me to stop. Why not [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have no idea what the hell you are talking about.</p>
<p>This comment was in my moderation queue:</p>
<blockquote><p>What is the problem with you?!!!</p>
<p>Why do you insist on making gibby.wsâ€™s emails based on its changes go to me?</p>
<p>Stop it!</p>
<p>I am frustrated. 3 emails about it!</p>
<p>You asked me to stop. Why not you stop it yourself!!!</p>
<p>Change the contact info to yourself!</p>
<p>I hate those emails! Get them away from me!</p>
<p>I donâ€™t want to have anything to do with you! You FORCED ME TO COME HERE!</p>
<p>I heard you changed your emails. Emailing you will be of no use!</p>
<p>GET LOST!!! Stop making all your webmaster junk go to me! I donâ€™t care if its the Friday 13th for you! JUST GET LOST!!</p>
<p>AND DONâ€™T INSULT MY GRAMMAR! I KNOW MY ENGLISH CAN REEK AT TIMES BUT JUST DO ME ONE FAVOUR, STOP FORWARDING THE GODADDY TRASH OF YOURS TO ME!</p>
<p>Hereâ€™s the first email:<br />
<i>* * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * *<br />
DOMAIN STATUS NOTIFICATION<br />
* * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * *</p>
<p>Dear Chien Yee,</p>
<p>This notification is generated automatically as a service to you.</p>
<p>We have received a request that the NAME SERVERS be changed to:&#8230;</i></p>
<p>&#8230;</p>
<p>This is the next one:</p>
<p>&#8230;</p>
<p>Hereâ€™s the third:</p>
<p>&#8230;</p>
<p>Why the hell would I bother to come to this place? I just also want YOU to leave me alone. Iâ€™ve enough problems with you. I want to end this but your emails changed my opinion of you. I thought that you would just stop going at my email. Just change it. I told you before. Hell should I care if you do anything to it. I just want you to stop it all the same!</p></blockquote>
<p>Now&#8230;</p>
<p><i>What is the problem with you?!!!</i></p>
<p>My only problem in life is you.<br />
<span id="more-1379"></span><br />
<i>Why do you insist on making gibby.wsâ€™s emails based on its changes go to me?<br />
Stop it!<br />
I am frustrated. 3 emails about it!</i></p>
<p>Seriously, I have no idea why GoDaddy would email you about this.  I have told you this before.  Can&#8217;t you get it through your thick head?  I&#8217;m listed as registrant of that domain name as I always have been so there is no reason for them to be emailing you, especially considering it&#8217;s MY GoDaddy account.  Therefore, I do not <i>insist</i> on GoDaddy sending anything to you.  Why would I do that?  C&#8217;mon.  Seriously.</p>
<p><b>If you have a problem with GoDaddy you take it up with them</b> and leave me alone.  I&#8217;ve told you this before.</p>
<p><i>You asked me to stop. Why not you stop it yourself!!!</i></p>
<p>Stop?  Stop what?  Emailing you?  When&#8217;s the last time I really emailed you?  I&#8217;ll tell you, it was December 27th, 2005, when I last told you to bug off and that you could not &#8220;continue&#8221; my scripts.</p>
<p><i>Change the contact info to yourself!<br />
I hate those emails! Get them away from me!</i></p>
<p>It <b>IS</b> me.  I do not know why they would have emailed you.  <b>TAKE IT UP WITH THEM YOURSELF.</b></p>
<p><i>I donâ€™t want to have anything to do with you! You FORCED ME TO COME HERE!</i></p>
<p>I did not <i>force</i> you to come here, you did that of your own volition.  All you had to do was delete the emails and forget about it.  You did not need to come here and leave a really long comment on an unrelated post.</p>
<p><i>I heard you changed your emails. Emailing you will be of no use!</i></p>
<p>Yes, I did.  To get away from you.</p>
<p><i>GET LOST!!! Stop making all your webmaster junk go to me! I donâ€™t care if its the Friday 13th for you! JUST GET LOST!!</i></p>
<p>See, that&#8217;s the thing.  You are the one who keeps contacting me.  I changed my email to get away from you, yet you always find a way.  The only reason you were able to comment at my site at all without using a proxy is because I once again accidentally forgot to reblock you when I reinstalled WordPress.  Why is it every time I accidentally unblock you, you come and cause more trouble?  I have stats&#8230; I know you check this site every night (day for you) looking to get in, and sometimes you do.  Don&#8217;t act like you can hide anything from me, I always know when you&#8217;re here.  Sometimes you try four and five times in a night.<br />
Furthermore, all of my &#8220;webmaster stuff&#8221; is certainly not going to you.  So you got a few emails from GoDaddy because of some mixup somewhere, BIG DEAL.  Get over it.<br />
Friday the 13th?  What does that have to do with anything?  For your information, you posted your comment on Saturday the 14th.  So&#8230; yeah.  Whatever.</p>
<p><i>AND DONâ€™T INSULT MY GRAMMAR! I KNOW MY ENGLISH CAN REEK AT TIMES BUT JUST DO ME ONE FAVOUR, STOP FORWARDING THE GODADDY TRASH OF YOURS TO ME!</i></p>
<p>Does it look like I forwarded anything to you?  Seriously, who did the emails come from?  Me, or GoDaddy?  GoDaddy.  So how could I have forwarded you anything?</p>
<p><i>Why the hell would I bother to come to this place? I just also want YOU to leave me alone. Iâ€™ve enough problems with you. I want to end this but your emails changed my opinion of you. I thought that you would just stop going at my email. Just change it. I told you before. Hell should I care if you do anything to it. I just want you to stop it all the same!</i></p>
<p>As we&#8217;ve already established, those are not <i>my</i> emails, they came from GoDaddy.  I am not &#8220;going at&#8221; your email.  If you want it to end, then END IT.  Stop contacting me.  Seriously.  Or are you just completely and utterly UNABLE to stop?  Are you really THAT obsessed with me?  Do you just love me that much?</p>
<p>And for the thousanth time, I never had that domain registered in your name (why would I, it&#8217;s not yours) and the contact info for all types has been my info.  I do not know why you get emails about that domain.  What I am trying to say is: THERE IS NOTHING I CAN DO ABOUT IT.</p>
<p>There is nothing for me to stop.  I am the one keeping to myself.  Do you even see me emailing you this post?  Noooo and I&#8217;m not going to email you.  But I know that you will bend over backwards to get to my site, so here&#8217;s my response to you.</p>
<p>Finally, why would you bother to leave a fake email address and fake URL in my comment form?  Did you actually think I was going to approve that comment to begin with?  Your IP is in a blacklist, honey.  And finally, do you not think that everyone doesn&#8217;t already know who you are?  Please.</p>
<p>Oh, and you know what?  I&#8217;ll do whatever the heck I darn well please.  Grow up.</p>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Dec 2005 16:43:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Val</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s some Stalker Girl updates. I still need to document it. Easier for if my cousin should ask for anything than sorting through a thousand emails and such. Christmas Eve I got an email from her in which she was wanting to get something out of me and tried to do what she wanted by [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Here&#8217;s some Stalker Girl updates.  I still need to document it.  Easier for if my cousin should ask for anything than sorting through a thousand emails and such.</p>
<p>Christmas Eve I got an email from her in which she was wanting to get something out of me and tried to do what she wanted by hiding it all in apologies.  The following is my response back to her in which you can read her original email in the quoted areas.  I bolded all of my responses back to her.</p>
<blockquote><p>On 12/24/05, Chien Yee [chienyee@gmail.com] wrote:</p>
<p><em>I thought over what I did again and I guess I&#8217;ll ruin your Christmas if I were to email you. I know this is kinda a long email but please bear with me. I want to sort things out with you.</em></p>
<p><strong>There is nothing to sort out.  Just leave me alone.  Stop trying to contact me.  That&#8217;s it.  End of story.  JUST GO AWAY.</strong></p>
<p><em>I checked my Chat Logs, emails, everything.</p>
<p>    I was wrong in the first place for asking for chienyee.net and then taking advantage of your good intentions by creating many identities to ask for more. It really destroyed the breech of trust between us and I truly regretted not admitting it was me after you told me that I was Shadow.</em></p>
<p><strong>There was no trust.  I did not know you well enough to trust you.  There was no trust to destroy.  And you will certainly never have any trust in the future.  However, for future reference, saying &#8220;it really destroyed the breech of trust&#8221; really doesn&#8217;t make a lick of sense.  Please, read your English dictionary and grammar books.</strong></p>
<p><em>Just recently I made the Flickr account Oinkity and adding you and Sarah as my contacts. That was wrong of me. So wrong.</p>
<p>    I gave up that flickr account to my friend and I created a new one, The Catherine. You see, Catherine is the name I&#8217;m called by my friends so I used it. </em></p>
<p><strong>Riiiiight.  Sure, you gave it to your &#8220;friend.&#8221;  Whatever.</strong></p>
<p><em>I decided to give up the chase of making you delete those posts. I don&#8217;t expect you to even forgive me. </em></p>
<p><strong>The chase?  You could never get me to delete them anyway.  So stop trying.  Stop worrying about it.  Because every time you email me, you just add to the search engines getting more negative feedback about you to people who happen to search for your name, to find out more about you.</strong></p>
<p><em>I guess I have been a bit possesive of the thought of making you to delete the posts. That&#8217;s why I started the Oinkity last time.</em></p>
<p><strong>I don&#8217;t care.  Just go away.  And learn how to use the proper words.  GO AWAY. </strong></p>
<p><em>I saw some comments left by my friends in Brunei and their IPs were the same as mine. I have no idea how but in the newspaper, it said everyone had the same IPs&#8230;</em></p>
<p><strong>That&#8217;s crap.  I don&#8217;t believe a word of it.  It doesn&#8217;t make any sense anyway.</strong></p>
<p><em>I wish we could start over as friends again, that is, if my stupid hand will not create any more fake identities.</em></p>
<p><strong>Don&#8217;t blame your hand for what YOU are doing.  Just stop.  Stop emailing me altogether.  There is no &#8220;starting over as friends again.&#8221;   NEVER.  GO AWAY.</strong></p>
<p><em>I got a new domain, http://not-my-muse.org after doing reward offers at ezyrewards. for once, I earned to keep it.</p>
<p>    I wish to compensate for what I&#8217;ve done. I&#8217;ve decided to try and continue your scripts. I will need your permission to do so first. I plan to enhance Nameless Blog and also Resounding. It will be the only way I can apologise. I can&#8217;t help any more. I&#8217;ve tried in my PC to make some additional features in Nameless Blog and so far, I&#8217;ve managed to have the ability to create categories and delete comments. For Resounding, I managed to let it have a blog for the reviews written. I&#8217;m not at all amazed if you refused.</em></p>
<p><strong>NO.  ABSOLUTELY NOT.  YOU DO NOT HAVE MY PERMISSION.  IF YOU WANT TO WRITE ANY SCRIPTS, DO IT ON YOUR OWN FROM START TO FINISH.  DO IT ALL YOUR OWN WORK FROM BEGINNING TO END.  PERIOD.  LEAVE MY SCRIPTS ALONE.  ESPECIALLY RESOUNDING.  I don&#8217;t even know where you got that one in the first place.  It&#8217;s not for download.  Neither of them are.  And besides all that &#8211; &#8220;continuing my scripts&#8221; is not a way to apologize to me, it is completely the opposite.  It is not helping.  So again, you DO NOT have my permission.</strong></p>
<p><em>If you want me to pay back for ChienYee.net, I am willing to register a domain for you for a one year duration since that&#8217;s what you gave me for chienyee.net. It can be under your or my name. I don&#8217;t care but what&#8217;s important is that I want you to have a domain back. </em></p>
<p><strong>Nope.  I don&#8217;t trust you.  At all.  Besides, I have all domains I need right now.  JUST GO AWAY.</strong></p>
<p><em>I&#8217;m sorry for emailing but its what I do every Christmas. I always ask for forgiveness if I really know I did something wrong.</p>
<p>    I really want to enjoy my Christmas this year and I want you to enjoy yours too. I don&#8217;t want to have more enemies. I just want to severe our ties. I just want to start out anew.</p>
<p>    If you need me to do anything for you or whatever, I will do it. Free of Charge,. No cost. This is to pay up for the design rip off I did. I&#8217;m sorry.</em></p>
<p><strong>Yes, I enjoyed Christmas just fine.  My Christmas did not include you.  JUST GO AWAY.  JUST GO AWAY.  Do you get it yet?  Why can you not get it through your thick head?  Just leave me alone.  Just leave all my friends and family and clients alone.  JUST GO AWAY.  Surely even in your limited understanding of the English language and grammar, you understand what the words &#8220;go away&#8221; mean.  Am I correct in assuming this?  THEN GO AWAY.<br />
Besides all that &#8211; you don&#8217;t make any sense, to say &#8220;I just want to severe our ties&#8221; is the complete opposite of &#8220;I just want to start out anew.&#8221;<br />
As for the design rip-off.  I want money.  Nothing else.  Just money.  My PayPal account would be just fine.  Send it there.  This email address.  I&#8217;ll keep tabs on it and let you know when you&#8217;re all paid up.<br />
I am not your enemy.  I am just someone who wants to be left alone.  NOW GO AWAY.<br />
My cousin the cop is still on the job, her and her cop friends.  They are watching you.</strong></p>
<p><center><b><u><i>GO AWAY!!!!</i></u></b></center></p></blockquote>
<p>That final &#8220;go away&#8221; was also red and as large as Gmail could make it.</p>
<p>Why did I respond to her at all?  To make it clear that she had under no circumstances any permission to &#8220;continue&#8221; my scripts or anything like that.</p>
<p>Also, something like 20 minutes after she sent me that first email, she sent another, out to about 15 people that said:</p>
<blockquote><p>Wishing you a VERY Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year 2006. If I have wronged you or made you offended or even made you mad, I do wish to apologise and I do hope we can still be friends.</p>
<p>&#8211;<br />
Chien Yee </p></blockquote>
<p>It had a PNG attachment with a puppy on it and it said &#8220;Merry Christmas 2005, dearest friends, wishing you a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year, best wishes from Chien Yee.&#8221;</p>
<p>So I did not hear from her for a bit and I posted my <a href="http://spoken-for.org/archives/2005/12/28/1351/">email address change post</a>.  I then realized, when I looked at my stats, that she had access to my site by her non-masked IP address because I&#8217;d forgotten to reblock her after upgrading WordPress to 2.0.  So I blocked her and am sending all 403&#8242;s to a special error page that states basically:</p>
<blockquote><p>This is a 403 error: a go away and leave me alone!!</p>
<p>Hey. You. Yeah, you, Stalker Girl. This page is for you.</p>
<p>I lied &#8211; just a bit. The requested document was found but the server decided that you&#8217;re not good enough to see it.</p>
<p>This page is here to simply say: GO AWAY! LEAVE ME ALONE!</p>
<p>Why can you not get it through your thick skull that I don&#8217;t want anything to do with you anymore? Why must you keep coming back for more?</p>
<p>Stop emailing me, stop visiting my sites. Stop emailing my friends, family, and clients, stop visiting the sites of my friends, family, and clients. Stop finding me on Flickr. Just. Go. Away.</p>
<p>By the way, all of your information (IP, Browser, ISP, Country, City, etc) were just emailed to me. Yay.</p>
<p>You were trying to load: /<br />
Your browser is: Mozilla/5.0 (Windows; U; Windows NT 5.1; en-US; rv:1.7.8) Gecko/20050511 Firefox/1.0.4<br />
Your current IP address is: 202.160.24.89</p>
<p>I&#8217;m talking to you, Boo-boo:</p>
<p><img src="http://static.flickr.com/38/79070596_c3c14fceb1_o.jpg" width="607" height="297" alt="Stalker Girl's Stats" /></p></blockquote>
<p>The image comes from Flickr so that it&#8217;s not coming from my server and maybe she saw it there first, I don&#8217;t know.  It&#8217;s from my Stat Counter stats.  And, yes, it does email me.  Anytime someone gets a 403 and loads that page, I get an email saying that someone was trying to load such and such address and their user agent is and their IP is&#8230; So I have emails where she&#8217;s tried to access my site about 34 times in the last 2 days &#8211; at say midnight my time, then ten minutes later, then fifteen minutes later, then six hours later, etc.</p>
<p>Apparently, that all ticked her off, and she emailed me again:</p>
<blockquote><p>You got the address all wrong you know. Its the same address for everyone in the country. Guess what? I don&#8217;t care if you mailed my parents or even spam my mother&#8217;s email.</p>
<p>My mom complained to me about you. YES YOU! You or whatever that was emailed her about sending her email to thousands of sites.</p>
<p>I will go away. When I find that I&#8217;m sick of you and I am!</p>
<p>Well, I came to it today when my friends told me about your site. They said about stalker girl to me and asked about it so I checked it out. Yeesh. </p>
<p>I don&#8217;t go to YOUR friend&#8217;s sites. I only go to sites I&#8217;ve found through other sites. Sites that I have INTEREST in.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not going to check your site anymore. Its clear that you think I live where I dont. ALL IPS IN HERE ARE THE SAME! JTB just wants to rpotect us from people like you!</p>
<p>Well, I found your IPs. It also changes. Well, I checked my emails sent by you to me using yor Holifieldweb email. I found 5 IPs! How can you explain that? I also have many IPS as you&#8217;ve said it but how&#8217;d you explain yours?</p>
<p>This is the last email to you. I do not expect even the least of replies. I only expect that you, like usual, will post it out. </p>
<p>I really want to stop but its to tempting to see what you&#8217;ll write about me. I always expect that if I emailed you.</p>
<p>I really know that you want to be left alone. I understand that. I want to apologise. I know you&#8217;re not my enemy. You&#8217;re not mine. I want to stop &#8220;stalking&#8221; you. I just want to make it over with.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t intend to even go to flickr now except post my own stuff. Why should I see your stuff when I know you&#8217;ve blocked me.</p>
<p><center><i><u><b>GO AWAY FROM ME TOO!!!</b></u></i></center></p>
<p>&#8211;<br />
Chien Yee<br />
That&#8217;s not my muse<br />
not-my-muse.org is mine. </p></blockquote>
<p>Of course, that last line as as big and as red as Gmail can make it.  Like mine.  In the last email.</p>
<p>This line: &#8220;My mom complained to me about you. YES YOU! You or whatever that was emailed her about sending her email to thousands of sites.&#8221;  Hahaha.  Okay, so we remember that she supposedly gave me her mom&#8217;s email address.  A while ago, I emailed it to check and see if it was a real address and basically said that&#8217;s what I was doing and that if it was a real address a real email would be coming soon.  That&#8217;s <i>all</i> I did with that address.  Until after receiving this email, of course, then I did send that address a decent email telling her to &#8220;make your daughter leave me alone.&#8221;  So we shall see if it really is her mom&#8217;s email or not.</p>
<p>The line about all IPs in Brunei being the same?  That cracks me up.  So EVERY computer in Brunei that&#8217;s connected to the internet is going to send out the same IP address, is it?  LOL</p>
<p>And about my IPs changing?  That&#8217;s just crap.  She can&#8217;t possibly know how to get an IP out of an email, I can&#8217;t seem to find one.  She probably has, if anything, the first server IP address and maybe this current server&#8217;s, and who knows what else.  But I know she can&#8217;t have mine otherwise she would have blocked me from her site.  Hahaha.  And besides all that, I never accused her of having different IPs, I accused her of having the <i>same</i> IP &#8211; saying that all her personalities that filled out my online forms and commented on my site and did various things all had the <i>same</i> IP.  I really think she knows nothing about IP addresses whatsoever.  Don&#8217;t you?</p>
<p>As for everything else, it sure is interesting how she keeps saying she wants nothing to do with me and wants to leave me alone but just never does.  Oh she wants to leave me alone but it&#8217;s so interesting to see what I&#8217;ll write about her?  So how about read but stop emailing me?  She tells me to get lost and go away like I&#8217;m the one who started all of this.</p>
<p>So I didn&#8217;t answer the email and I don&#8217;t intend to.  Then I think out of desperation to get me to reply, she goes to <a href="http://sarangeti.blog-city.com">Sara</a>&#8216;s site and leaves a comment there.  Remember when she left a mean comment there before, as her other personality?  So she writes again that she&#8217;s sorry for that comment.  I know she&#8217;s trying to get me to respond to her because there was the time she wrote me and I didn&#8217;t respond and she went over to a client&#8217;s website and posted a comment about one of my sites.  That ticked me off and I emailed her angrily.</p>
<p>So I&#8217;m not saying anything, let&#8217;s see what she does next, because this just can&#8217;t be the end.  She&#8217;s mental.  I told her &#8220;mother&#8221; that, too, &#8220;get her some help.&#8221;</p>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Dec 2005 02:02:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Val</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Because of my crazy and absolutely nutty Stalker Girl, I have the need to change my personal email address. If you would like my new email address &#8211; under no circumstances will I be making it public &#8211; please leave a comment here &#8211; and be sure to leave your proper email address (it is [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Because of my crazy and absolutely nutty <a href="http://spoken-for.org/archives/tag/stalker-girl/">Stalker Girl</a>, I have the need to change my personal email address.  If you would like my new email address &#8211; under no circumstances will I be making it public &#8211; please leave a comment here &#8211; and be sure to leave <em>your</em> proper email address (it is not displayed anywhere on the site).</p>
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