hmmm… what?
Basically a re-post of my Facebook note:
Well this morning I lost most of my amniotic fluid. That is NOT a good thing by any means.
There is apparently supposed to be at least 10 cm of fluid surrounding the baby. They did an ultrasound and I have 3 cm. Baby’s heartbeat was good.
So, she says, here are the options/possibilities:
1. Induce labor
A nice way, I think, of saying “abortion.” I’m at 20 weeks, 21 tomorrow (Friday). From my quick web search, I find that the youngest baby to survive was just under 23 weeks and that the mother lied to the emergency personnel, knowing that the standard is to not “bother” with a baby born under 23 weeks.
2. It could repair itself.
Of course, this is the miracle scenario, and the one I’m hoping for. It’s possible for it to stop and regenerate fluid.
3. I could make it to 24 weeks
Then they’d put me in the hospital and give me injections of steroids to try and mature the baby’s lungs. Then we end up with a very premature baby in a precarious situation.
4. I could go into labor and/or could lose the baby
It could continue to just leak
So I’m on indefinite bed rest for at least the next 3 weeks. I’m only allowed to get up to go to the bathroom. I’m living on the couch. Steve is out looking to buy us a new couch. As you know, this one is on its’ 9th life. If I go into labor or get a fever, I’m supposed to head right to the hospital. Otherwise, there’s nothing else to do until Tuesday when I am supposed to go in for another check-up and ultrasound.
Please pray for me… and Kayleigh, if you will.
Who are we that You would be mindful of us
What do You see that’s worth looking our way
We are free in ways that we never should be
Sweet release from the grip of these chains
Like hinges straining from the weight
My heart no longer can keep from singing.
All that is within me cries
For You alone be glorified
Emmanuel God with us
My heart sings a brand new song
The debt is paid these chains are gone
Emmanuel God with us
Lord You know our hearts don’t deserve Your glory
Still You show a love we cannot afford
Like hinges straining from the weight
My heart no longer can keep from singing
Such a tiny offering compared to Calvary nevertheless we lay it at Your feet.
– God With Us, MercyMe (who else? Not to mention, this has been MY SONG since that bad day in June.)

Amber
February 12th, 2009 at 1.52 pm
I hope everything works out alright. One of my close friends is pregnant to and I’d be devastated if anything should happen to her, so here’s to praying that everything fixes itself.
This is probably a stupid question, but can they supplement your amniotic fluid?
J
February 12th, 2009 at 2.01 pm
Already posted this on facebook but I’m so sorry :( I hope that it just works out alright and fixes itself or at least you make it to 24 weeks. I’ll be thinking of you! *hugs*
Victoria
February 12th, 2009 at 2.52 pm
I’m really sorry to hear this. :( I hope everything turns out OK and that your baby will be healthy.
anneberit
February 12th, 2009 at 3.17 pm ♥
You go baby K!
My last.fm is playing “Be Still and Know that he is God” right now; know that you are all in Gods hands through this. I’m praying.
Michelle
February 12th, 2009 at 8.51 pm
Hi Val, big hugs to you. Will keep you and baby K in my prayers. Have faith in God, for He is always there for us.
Birgit
February 13th, 2009 at 2.00 am
Thinking of you and the wee one, Val. Hugs!
Val
February 13th, 2009 at 6.15 pm
Thank you all SO SO SO very much!
Patti Kohrt
February 26th, 2009 at 7.22 pm ♥
Val: You don’t know me. My name is Patti. I want to tell you about a remarkable young man named Marc who is now 21 years old. He was born at 22 weeks and weighed 1 pound and 13 ounces. His body was the size of a pair of sunglasses. Altnough they had to help him with his lungs, and he wears some serious cokebottles for glasses, and he has a slight speech impediment, the kid is a normal kid. I have had the priveledge of watching him grow up along side of my daughter as they were only born 2 weeks apart.
First: Be Encouraged! God IS in the business of miracles – Marc is only one of three that I know and I marvel at them all as the days go by. Second: There are many medical wonders that can be done nowadays. Third: Don’t give into fear. Stand strong and firm. We will keep you in our prayers.
Patti, McAllen, Texas
Val
February 27th, 2009 at 3.44 pm
Patti, thank you so much for your comment!
Since I originally made the post, I’ve learned a lot more about this situation and what can happen. I do believe in miracles, and so far, I guess I’d say that this baby staying in now 2 weeks past my water breaking is a miracle in itself. She’s still fighting strong! I’m on bed rest and now we are to decide when to go in the hospital.
Thank you so much for the encouragement!