Comments on: I lost a friend tonight… http://spoken-for.org/archives/2007/04/05/1852/ hmmm... what? Mon, 30 Jan 2012 02:01:14 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Sarangeti http://spoken-for.org/archives/2007/04/05/1852/comment-page-1/#comment-160520 Sarangeti Sun, 08 Apr 2007 17:04:57 +0000 http://spoken-for.org/archives/2007/04/05/1852/#comment-160520 I'm sorry, hon, but you'll be happier in life without this person! Smuck them! I’m sorry, hon, but you’ll be happier in life without this person! Smuck them!

]]> By: Val http://spoken-for.org/archives/2007/04/05/1852/comment-page-1/#comment-159438 Val Sat, 07 Apr 2007 20:40:12 +0000 http://spoken-for.org/archives/2007/04/05/1852/#comment-159438 LOL Amanda, of course not ;-) Yes @ Bes, and sadly, I thought that when I became an adult the childish fighting between friends would end. It did, except this one time, apparently. Again, oh well. All I can do is move on and not care what anyone else thinks. I don't get along with hypocrites. And by hypocrites, in this case I mean that if you have a problem with me, say so! Don't lie to my face and tell me it's not me. Tell me what's wrong so I can dispel your fears and we can move on together! LOL Amanda, of course not ;-)

Yes @ Bes, and sadly, I thought that when I became an adult the childish fighting between friends would end. It did, except this one time, apparently. Again, oh well. All I can do is move on and not care what anyone else thinks.

I don’t get along with hypocrites. And by hypocrites, in this case I mean that if you have a problem with me, say so! Don’t lie to my face and tell me it’s not me. Tell me what’s wrong so I can dispel your fears and we can move on together!

]]> By: Bes Z http://spoken-for.org/archives/2007/04/05/1852/comment-page-1/#comment-159343 Bes Z Sat, 07 Apr 2007 17:07:43 +0000 http://spoken-for.org/archives/2007/04/05/1852/#comment-159343 I think sometimes one realizes that while a "relationship" may be friendship according to one person, the other person involved in the relationship may not view it as a friendship but as a rivalry or obsession or something. Jealousy is bad, and if it ruins a relationship, you can try to fix it. If the other person does not want to fix it, you have to see if you want to continue to try fixing it or simply move on. Jealousy, lying, being a moron, etc all come together to form an evil cloud that can destroy a relationship. Good to know you don't get along with hypocrites. ;) I think sometimes one realizes that while a “relationship” may be friendship according to one person, the other person involved in the relationship may not view it as a friendship but as a rivalry or obsession or something. Jealousy is bad, and if it ruins a relationship, you can try to fix it. If the other person does not want to fix it, you have to see if you want to continue to try fixing it or simply move on.

Jealousy, lying, being a moron, etc all come together to form an evil cloud that can destroy a relationship. Good to know you don’t get along with hypocrites. ;)

]]> By: Amanda http://spoken-for.org/archives/2007/04/05/1852/comment-page-1/#comment-159342 Amanda Sat, 07 Apr 2007 17:07:09 +0000 http://spoken-for.org/archives/2007/04/05/1852/#comment-159342 I'm sorry. It's me, isn't it? :( I’m sorry. It’s me, isn’t it? :(

]]> By: Val http://spoken-for.org/archives/2007/04/05/1852/comment-page-1/#comment-159242 Val Sat, 07 Apr 2007 15:14:34 +0000 http://spoken-for.org/archives/2007/04/05/1852/#comment-159242 You didn't miss it because I didn't talk about it. ;-) Yeah you are right - the good times are special. But I have seen how nasty people can be and I'm glad to be out of that. I'm sure they're bad-mouthing me, but I really don't care because Steve and I know the truth about me and well, that's all that's important. He actually told me to be done with them last fall, I guess I should have listened. Oh well. Now I can move on and I won't be looking back. You didn’t miss it because I didn’t talk about it. ;-)

Yeah you are right – the good times are special. But I have seen how nasty people can be and I’m glad to be out of that. I’m sure they’re bad-mouthing me, but I really don’t care because Steve and I know the truth about me and well, that’s all that’s important. He actually told me to be done with them last fall, I guess I should have listened. Oh well.

Now I can move on and I won’t be looking back.

]]> By: Todd http://spoken-for.org/archives/2007/04/05/1852/comment-page-1/#comment-157661 Todd Fri, 06 Apr 2007 13:38:57 +0000 http://spoken-for.org/archives/2007/04/05/1852/#comment-157661 I guess I've missed this coming and going in your stream Val. Really sorry to hear you've lost a friend. Sometimes friends do argue and seperate, but sometimes we find they weren't as much friend as they were traveling companions for a ways down the road. That makes that time no less special that we've experienced together, and doesn't reflect poorly on either individual. It's just sometimes we come to a parting of the ways. Who knows? Maybe you'll be back on the same path in the future. A fellow traveler, Todd I guess I’ve missed this coming and going in your stream Val. Really sorry to hear you’ve lost a friend. Sometimes friends do argue and seperate, but sometimes we find they weren’t as much friend as they were traveling companions for a ways down the road.

That makes that time no less special that we’ve experienced together, and doesn’t reflect poorly on either individual. It’s just sometimes we come to a parting of the ways. Who knows? Maybe you’ll be back on the same path in the future.

A fellow traveler,
Todd

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