hmmm… what?
Remember the letter from the ex-boss man? A couple of weeks ago we were instructed to go ahead and sign it and send it in. So two weekends ago, Steve signed it, had it notarized and sent it in. A few business days later, and he had a couple of checks totalling around $500.
This is good for three reasons:
1.) It’s money! Duh.
2.) We are so much in debt, so we need it.
3.) Last week, there were two days Steve did not work.
Not working is not exactly conductive to getting out of debt, is it? It was so strange. The Friday before, they notified him that he was going to be moving to another work location the following Monday. That’s fine and in fact, it’s a half an hour closer to the house than the location he’d been working at. Sunday rolls around and one of the big dudes calls him and says, “uh, well, it’s supposed to rain, so there’s nothing to do, so don’t bother to come to work.” Ooooookay. That did, however, enable him to get some work done on the room we’re remodeling that’s currently in stale mate mode. However, the next day it was the same: no work.
Now, this isn’t right. Because he’s in the apprentice program, he is supposed to be guaranteed work for four years. We’re down to three and a half years now. So he’s supposed to be working all the time. That Tuesday morning he went out to meet the guys he was working with to show them some pictures he’d promised (my grandfathers’ motorcycles, to one cycle enthusiast for example) and they found out he wasn’t working. The foreman told him that if he wasn’t called and sent to work on Wednesday to come back there. So for a week now, that’s what he’s been doing.
So the point of this was all to say, come tomorrow morning, his automatic deposit will be two days short of normal. We’re “lucky” that work share is over so he gets paid for Thursdays at school, otherwise we’d only have a two day check.
Anyway, back to getting out of debt.
It’s no surprise for me to say that we live paycheck-to-paycheck and it’s always been that way and probably always be that way, I’m cool with it. However, when there’s debt involved, it makes things hard… and debt is SO easy to get into these days.
Now that Steve gets paid more than he did this time last year, we are trying hard to get out of debt. It’s not going to be easy and it’s not going to be quick, but if we ever want to get a bigger place, we’ve got to do it. Our plan is to continue to live like we did with the smaller paychecks and make bigger payments on the credit card and such. Here’s some of the other things we’re trying…
Credit Cards
– We are making it a point to make a weekly payment. This means that in addition to our minimum payment, we’re making $50 weekly payments or more, depending on how the week goes or what other bills are due. Then, of course, if worse comes to worse, when the minimum payment is due, if we absolutely can’t make the full payment, we’ve at least made a dent in it with the weekly payments. With online bill pay, this is so easy.
– Our interest rate is too high. We will not, however, transfer to another card unless I find a really good “deal.” Part of this is because I just plain don’t want to get another credit card, I don’t think we could get a credit card that would give us enough balance right off the bat to transfer over everything (and then we’d have two payments), and from what I understand, transferring balances like that can hurt your credit rating. SO, the plan is to try and get our card company to reduce the interest rate, by threatening to transfer. The problem with that is that the call needs to be made by Steve during regular business hours. So we are still working that one out.
Mortgage
– Did you know that by paying only the minimum payment on your mortgage can, in the long run, cause you to pay more than four times what your original loan was for, depending on your interest rate? I figured this out very quickly with our first mortgage. At the time, we borrowed $30,000 and if we paid the minimum payment (I think it was $289 at that time) until the loan was paid off (30 years), we would have paid something like $130,000. Why? Because in the earlier stages of your loan, you’re not paying back the amount you borrowed, you’re paying on the interest on that amount.
So about three years later (I was pregnant), we refinanced. We borrowed the same amount (see what I mean?) but we reduced not only our interest rate but the time of the loan down to 15 years. Our payment did go up, of course, but with the lower interest rate, it’s not that bad.
– Finally, we try to pay extra on our mortgage every month. Even if it’s just $10. Because, apparently, $10 a month ($120 over a year) extra paid to principle, not the interest, really adds up and can take years off your loan. On our mortgage coupons there is a spot that says “additional principle” where we write the extra amount (typically $12 for us) and then we fill out the total.
So, yes, we are working on getting out of debt. Though all of that sounds like such small stuff, it really adds up over time. And, of course, by remodeling our house we’re working towards making the house worth more than we bought it for, for when we can resell it.
It’s not that I don’t feel that debt is a part of life and I’ll be in debt until the day I die… it’s that I feel we have too much debt.
What about you? Spill your secrets!

Nicole Ross
February 9th, 2006 at 5.03 pm ♥
Heh, I wish I had secrets for getting out of debt, but we are so far behind everywhere it seems like we are ALWAYS playing catchup. But we are working on it, and as long as I feel like we are TRYING, then I don’t feel too bad.
Chelsea
February 9th, 2006 at 5.56 pm ♥
This is why I’m not going to get a credit card until I’m married :) hehe..
I would strongly suggest tithing. God will bless you if you do and help you and Steve get out of debt. He can do anything, remember?
Azurae
February 10th, 2006 at 4.46 am
The more unsecured debt (credit cards) you have can sometimes be a very bad thing. You want to have 1 or 2 credit cards and pay (at least) the minimum on them each month. It is really best *not* to spend more on the credit card that you would spend if all you had was cash. This way you pay the card back before the interest kicks in AND you don’t get into debt. Too late for that it sounds like though, so, what to do? Well exactly what you are: pay extra whenever you can so that you do get out of debt!
As for the morgage, well, like any loan it is amoratized. This means, as you’ve noted, that you pay more on interest at first and the principal (how much you borrowed) ends up getting paid off last. Sound stupid, huh? It’s how a morgage company makes money and why they LOVE to have you refinance, because then you start back at square one.
This is to Chels: get a credit card when you turn 18 from your bank that has no monthly fee. Each month buy something small with it or something that is the same price every month (car insurance, internet bill, etc) with it. Then when the bill comes pay it immediately. Credit card companies give you a grace period between when you buy the item and then it will start to collect interest. That is to say that if buy shoes with a credit card on the 1st for $25 and your bill is due on the 29th then send in the $25 a week or more before the due date. This way you have established good credit! The more you do this without going into debt or missing any payments or getting interest charged the better credit you can build and the lower interest rates you’ll be eligable for in the future.
Tithing and donations are good, but I honestly do no see God showing favor to you for tithing or donating over someone just as religiously aware who does. This is just a personal opinion though, and not financial advice. (:
PS: Longest. Comment. Ever!
Debt Settlement Advice
April 26th, 2007 at 11.23 pm
Revolving credit card debt will inhibit your ability to grow wealth and can make you go practically broke. Most people are decieved into their situation. Universal default is a very common practice with the credit card companies today. That is the clause that allows them to raise your rate and get you stuck on the credit treadmill for years. All it takes is to go past due with just one of your creditors and the interest rates on your cards can sore. Be very wary about this.